
Is it better to fall in love or learn to love? I think this is a tricky question to answer. There is so much evidence that arranged marriages do work but that might also be because of culture. It might be that a culture that surrounds the belief of arranged marriages helps to create a culture in which the marriage will last or that they feel like they can't seek a divorce. The same can be said for people who "fall" in love. Divorces are a part of everyday life for most people in the United States. I think we can all name at least 5 people easily that we know that are divorced. I know I personally have parents that are divorced. So is it the culture that helps a marriage to survive or is it love. Who knows. I think that there is a big difference in the initial stages of love and what makes a successful marriage. The initial feelings of love change over time and in order for a relationship to work there has to be a learning process and a growing process. No one ever stays the same and that I believe is also true of relationships....love changes and grows and adapts.
Now to reflect on what I have been up to the last few weeks. Let's see.....speaking of love I found out that my sister and her husband of five years are expecting a baby in October. This will be their first child which will make me an Aunt for the first time. Inside school I have been trying to get things ready for Advisory training which will take me out of the classroom next week. I am beginning to take an on-line class to help develop more international cooperation projects. I am really excited about this class. I hope I am able to broaden the scope of our blogging project. I think it will be great to include more international students in our blogs. We are also welcoming Mr. Prather and Mr. Powell's class to our blogs in the next few weeks. Hopefully this will allow the students more opportunities to talk and learn from each other.